Should We Stay Together?
A Scientifically Proven Method for Evaluating Your Relationship and Improving its Chances for Long-Term Success
1. Edition May 2000
208 Pages, Softcover
Wiley & Sons Ltd
The fact is, some couples need more time to mature, some need to work through specific issues, and some should never be together. But how do you know? What factors add up to success-or failure-in a relationship? Author Jeffry Larson knows; in fact, he knows a lot about what predicts a happy marriage. Based on Larson's twenty-plus years of research and experience in marriage and family therapy, Should We Stay Together?debunks many time-honored myths as it provides couples with the tools they need to make better decisions and thoroughly explore every aspect of their relationship. From individual characteristics, idiosyncratic family histories, unresolved conflicts and needs, and combined strengths and weaknesses, this step-by-step scientific method for relationship evaluation-based on the highly accurate RELATE premarital assessment questionnaire-will help couples understand the specific traits that predict a satisfying-or disastrous-relationship.
Acknowledgements.
Introduction.
1. Myths About Preparing for Marriage.
2. The Marriage Triangle: Three Factors That Predict Your Future
Marital Satisfaction.
3. The Marriage Triangle, Factor 1: Your Individual and
Relationship Contexts.
4. The Marriage Triangle, Factor 2: Your Individual Traits.
5. The Marriage Triangle, Factor 3: Your Couple Traits.
6. Your Own Personal Marriage Triangle -
Putting the Three Factors Together.
7. Whom and When Not to Marry!
8. Other Resources for Marriage Preparation.
In Conclusion.
Notes.
The Author.
relationship. With this book, you'll learn about the things that
put marriages-maybe yours-at risk and more importantly, what areas
you need to focus on to build a lasting and happy relationship.
With its strong basis in marital research, I highly recommAnd this
book for those wanting to make a solid investment in their future
together." --Scott Stanley, coauthor, Fighting for Your
Marriage
"This book should be made available in every high school, church,
and public library." --Diane Solee, director, Coalition for
Marriage, Family, and Couples Education
"This book is based on the best of what is known about predicting
marital satisfaction. Its style and content are unique and directly
applicable to couples." --Bob Stahmann, author, Premarital and
Remarital Counseling
