Resilience For Dummies

1. Edition May 2021
384 Pages, Softcover
Wiley & Sons Ltd
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger! Activate your natural ability to thrive with Resilience For Dummies
Stress, anxiety, and exhaustion are all-too-common features of our crazy-paced, curveball-throwing contemporary existence, and it's sometimes hard to see how we can make it from one week to the next intact. But there's a solution to the struggle: resilience! In Resilience For Dummies, Dr. Eva Selhub--former Harvard Medical School instructor and director of the Benson Henry Institute for Mind Body Medicine at the Massachusetts General Hospital for six years--outlines the proven steps we can all take toward optimal resilience to build healthier, more purposeful, and increasingly joyful lives.
The six pillars of resilience are: physical vitality, emotional equilibrium, mental toughness and clarity, spiritual purpose, healthy personal relationships, and being an inspiring leader and part of a wider community or team. Dr. Selhub explains why each of these foundations is crucial to flourishing, how fortifying them gives us a base for attacking stress, hardship, and failure head-on, and how this confrontation then develops the strength we need for transformative change within our personal and professional lives.
* Know how genetics, education, and culture contribute to resilience
* Avoid learned helplessness and the victim mindset
* Harmonize stress and make it work for you
* Clear negative emotions and find your bliss
* Build up your physical, mental, and spiritual muscles
Dr. Selhub's six pillars of resilience show you how to channel your inner strength, face down whatever trouble comes your way, and come out thriving on the other side.
Part 1: Getting Started with Resilience 5
Chapter 1: Embarking on the Journey to Resilience 7
Chapter 2: The Basis of Resilience: Harmony Versus Stress 21
Chapter 3: The First Pillar: Physical Vitality and Flexibility 33
Chapter 4: The Second Pillar: Developing Mental Toughness and Clarity 49
Chapter 5: The Third Pillar: Achieving Emotional Equilibrium 61
Chapter 6: The Fourth Pillar: Cultivating Spirituality 71
Chapter 7: The Fifth Pillar: Striving for Quality Relationships 83
Chapter 8: The Sixth Pillar: Belonging to a Community or Team 97
Part 2: Laying the Foundation 109
Chapter 9: The Practice of Listening: Quieting and Sharpening Your Senses 111
Chapter 10: The Practice of Gaining Deeper Insight 129
Chapter 11: The Practice of Shifting Your Mindset 147
Part 3: Evaluating and Strengthening Relationships 171
Chapter 12: Improving Your Relationship with Yourself 173
Chapter 13: Creating Quality Relationships 193
Chapter 14: Building a Resilient Community 213
Chapter 15: Becoming a Resilient Leader 233
Part 4: Putting Resilience into Action 255
Chapter 16: Fueling the Mind and Body 257
Chapter 17: Organizing Your Environment 273
Chapter 18: Resilience in Action at Work 289
Chapter 19: Resilience in the Family 303
Part 5: The Part of Tens 321
Chapter 20: Ten Tips to Help Your Kids Cope with Stress and Change 323
Chapter 21: Ten Tips for Using Nature to Become Resilient 333
Index 341